What advice do you give?

[Khristine]

to a friend who is thinking about separating/divorce?

[Nicole]

I don't think I could give any advice. Maybe to make sure this is what he/she wants. I wouldn't really give advice just support. Just let him/her know that you are behind him/her in whatever choice they make.

[lucky_starr]

I agree


I don't think I could give any advice. Maybe to make sure this is what he/she wants. I wouldn't really give advice just support. Just let him/her know that you are behind him/her in whatever choice they make.

[CherryAddictedMama]

I would say, to make sure that you are sure that is what you want or what needs to be done. When I divorced my ex it was because I finally had to chose between him and my kids....and that was no contest...I did what was best for them and for me. The friend should also know that it is never easy and not going to be easy because at one point they were in love with that person, things just dont always work out the way that we want them to.

[1sttimemommy]

if it was family I would get involved. If it's just a friend, all ya can do is listen. I would notgive advice cause if things go wrong, your a bad guy in the end

[mitchteryosa]

I would give my friend my most honest opinion depending on the situation, but would definitely impose that at the end of the day it's them who would have to settle the problem.

[makeawish]

I would just tell 'em that they are the only ones who can make that decision cuz they are the ones who have to live with the decision. But I would be there for 'em if they needed anything even if they just needed someone to listen. It's a tough one cuz if they decide to leave because of something you said then that can come back to bite you later.